Helping children cope with crisis

Newberg Oregon School District

Whenever a national tragedy occurs, such as terrorist attacks or natural disasters, children, like many people, may be confused or frightened. Most likely they will look to adults for information and guidance on how to react.  The National Association of School Psychologists (NASP) suggest parents and school personnel can help children cope first and foremost by establishing a sense of safety and security. As more information becomes available, adults can continue to help children work through their emotions and perhaps even use the process as a learning experience.

The National PTA and NASP suggest that all adults should:

  • Model calm and control
  • Reassure children that they are safe
  • Keep to your normal routines to provide a sense of stability
  • Keep your explanations age appropriate
  • Help children express their feelings. Let children know it is okay to feel upset
  • Listen. Ask questions.
  • Make yourself available.

Tips for Parents and Schools

  • Tips to help children cope in the event of a national tragedy for all adults, parents and schools from the  National Association of School Psychologists
  • Responding to Tragedy:  List of Web Sites from the FL Dept of Education